how time flies with new lessons in our life

Betapa pantas masa berlalu. Sekarang sudah masuk hari ke 21 bulan Januari. Banyak benda baru berlaku pada tahun ini. Banyak pengalaman baru yang saya pelajari.

I took notes on new things that happened and i learned :
# 1 Fawwaz is going to preschool this year (Alhamdulillah). He is going to be 4 years old on July (this is his 4th years of age so he is qualified enough to go to preschool).
We are sending him to Nur Khalifah Kindergaten. We don't really hope for much, just want to expose him to a learning environment, how to socialize with friends in a much more formal place and exposing him to a new experience of other activities besides Disney Junior and his toys at home.
**We found that he likes going to school and he likes learning. He shows interest in going to that school.. (i hope it is not the toys there which motivates him on going to school haha)

#2 Husna is alone now at nursery (but her friends are still there actually) without Fawwaz because he has been placed to a new house near by for kids age 4 to 6 years old. First, she shows unhappy sign because her brother is no longer around, no more Abg Fawwaz while waiting for me or my husband come to take them...
But somehow later on she get use to it....and now, she is fine...
Bila masuk kereta dan jumpa Fawwaz, dia punya seronok macam dah lama je tak jumpa :D

#3 Baby is coming in March insyaAllah and we are trying to make some preparation and getting ready... Please make dua for us :)

#4 I am learning new things as a teacher...watch what u speak to your students, try to figure ways to build a bond between you and them and get close to them...be sincere  in teaching and learning...because of Allah....
When you have a good relation with others, it is easier to make them  listen to what are you trying to say and teach.... We want them to grab the learning and get educated, not just finishing the syllbus....

#5 always remember that LA HAULA WA LA QUWWATA ILLA BILLAH.... We always need Allah in our life, seek for His forgiveness and guidance in this life...

These are some of the things that i have been jotting down in my memory and my mind.... These are some of the lessons for me.
May Allah grant us patience and guidance in this life

2012

Another year...it's already 2012... May we become more closer to the great creator Allah the Almighty.... May it's a better year for us (ibadah, amal, family, relationship, work, health and lots more) tak tertulis rasanya :) P/s: a new member in the family is coming this March insha Allah... Please make dua for me :) Untill then, Happy Blessing New Year to every one...... Love, Zura

healing does take your time...

assalamualaikum all...

sometimes by unfortunate we cut our finger or hand or leg or any part of our body..

then it becomes wound... hurt and need a medical treatment... so we go and see the doctor...

the doctor treat us and give us the medicine...

what else will happen next?

next is the important phase..

it is the healing process... H-E-A-L....get recovered... get better...
we want to be healthy JUST LIKE BEFORE.... so we could do our work, we could be happy, we could enjoy our life... and we demand to get better ASAP (as soon as possible)...

but (sometimes) we forgot about one main factor in healing process is TIME...OUR TIME....healing does take time...healing does take our time....
because this is a real world, not a magical or fantasies or fairies world...we are no doraemon nor sailor moon...neither harry potter...
we are just a NORMAL man
and this is just the NORMAL and real world we are leaving in...

so in this real world, in order to get recovered again, we need time...the wound can't be healed by force... and it won't heal in a second or just a blink of eyes....

that's the FACT...we have to face it...healing does take time....


day by day and time by time everything will become better again insha ALLAH...
we just have to be patient and wait patiently....
and at the same time life must goes on and we have to do our work, and get everything done (ibadah, work, duties, daily routine, responsibilities...and etc) as it suppose to be..

May Allah grant us the patience that we need in this challenging phase...

How to feel sad? by Rus's Blog

"Happy is a feeling welcomed by most. Sadness? If we have a choice, we would rather not feel sad.

It"s good to have a hearty laugh, but not a silent cry.

However, the experience of sadness usually makes us think, reflect, ponder and consider what to do next. Unhappy situations provide us the opportunity to develop. To become more matured. Sad but true.

We wish that even if we are sad,we will not shed tears. The negative feeling is not to be revealed. Kept as a secret.

Can we choose how we feel?" by Rusmanizah Ustati - http://www.roseruz.blogspot.com

Saya ingin berkongsi artikel ini...
Oleh sebab di bahagian tiada butang 'share' untuk saya share jadi saya ambil inisiatif  'copy n paste'...

Post ini boleh dilawati di website berikut http://www.roseruz.blogspot.com di bawah tajuk "How to Feel Sad?" atau tekan di sini

Selamat membaca dan merenung....

Dealing with Tantrums...#1 STAY CALM

I've been searching all this time on tips and guidelines on how to handle small kids with certain issues ( like tantrum, doesn't want to eat, yang menjerit bila marah,buli dan etc....).

Then i found this good and informative book. "What to Expect : The Toddler Years" by Heidi Murkoff and some other writers.

Interesting and i like it :) Although i just read only 1% of the book.....ehem..ehem

The first thing  i did when i opened the book,was  searching about tantrum....how to deal with tantrum....

Well,
The first suggestion is :
#1 stay calm.... (how can we do that?)
but that is the number 1. STAY CALM

A big WHY there isn't it?

Okay...the writer said in the book :
"Stay calm. Nothing fuels a toddler's like a fired-up parent ; seeing you lose your cool will only make it more difficult for your child to regain his or hers. A  parental blow-up can also terrify a toddler, raising the specter loss of parental love. Already off-balance because of his or her own loss of control, the tantrumming toddler needs your calming influence and the reassurance of your unconditional love...."


i see... api lawan dengan api lagi terbakar. tapi api lawan dengan air, makin berkuranglah apinya.....