Monday 15 April 2013

di persimpangan

ada ketikanya kita berada di persimpangan suatu keputusan....

tidak pasti mahu ke kanan atau ke kiri....

terperangkap di antara dua keadaan....

pada ketika itu,

kembalilah kepada Allah.....berfikir dan simpulkan keputusan berbekalkan doa petunjuk daripada Allah, berfikir dengan akal bukan emosi....

semoga kita tidak tersasar dan tersalah pilih persimpangan....

Tuesday 12 March 2013

we walk to school....

i send fawwaz to school yesterday by....walking haha!!

Mula-mula saya risau Fawwaz tak mahu sebab sekolah fawwaz dalam lingkungan 15 minit kalau berjalan kaki. I was afraid he'll refused because he might get tired....although it is not so far but... it still not a place next door....

So i must prepare something in my mind untuk pujuk Fawwaz...

I want him to go to school because i feel that rugi kalau dia tertinggal sekolah....
Rugi juga kalau dia pergi sekolah lewat ...(di samping segan dengan teachers lah...) my husband can only arrived at home with the car key at 11 in the morning...and that is so late.


so this is what i did yesterday :

1) i said to him that we are going to walk to school, we are going to have some exercise by walking to school... Alhamdulillah he is excited with no sign of rejection...
Cuma bila dah separuh perjalanan dia kata, " Ummi, jom la kita exercise.." Saya jawab, "Walking to school is one of the exercise." "Oh, kita tengah exercise," he said excitedly.

2) Saya tidak mendesak dia supaya segera berjalan, saya biarkan dia enjoy keseronokan nak berjalan kaki walaupun saya sedar jam sudah 8.20 pagi dan saya mungkin akan lewat sedikit tiba di sekolah. Kenapa saya tak push him to walk fast is because saya nak Fawwaz dalam mood yang gembira dan seronok sepanjang perjalanan yang saya kira agak jauh itu....it is his first time walking to school... "Happy kid will finish his activity happily"

3) Fawwaz is a boy-who-like-to-talk....no.. not "mulut murai" :) but he likes to talk... along the way to school he talked... a lot... saya layan je dia bercakap supaya masa perjalanan yang boleh dikatakan panjang itu tak dirasai....
"Ummi jangan langgar tiang lampu tu!"
"Ummi lori tu besar."
"Ummi kita kena la jalan laju2..."
"Ummi, jom la kita lari...nanti kita penat kita jelir-jelir lidah heh heh heh (sambil bongkok2 badan dan jelir lidah)"

4) I talk to him slowly, dengan nada untuk memahamkan dia kenapa kami terpaksa berjalan ke sekolah.... "Fawwaz, hari ni kita jalan kaki pergi sekolah. Kita exercise pergi sekolah jalan kaki ya? Kunci kereta tak ada, kunci kereta Viva ada dalam kereta bapak. So hari ni kita exercise!!! Kita jalan kaki pergi sekolah!!!" 

So itu untuk pujuk Fawwaz...as for me myself....untuk pujuk diri sendiri an 8 month pregnant mother....it is not easy...because I know the real situation... I know that to walk to school is NOT NEAR.... so

1) i said to  myself ...imagine like you are walking in Tesco/Jusco/Suria KLCC....window shopping....buying this and that....that's also take several hours.... hehehe....

2) sembang je dengan Fawwaz....having happy time walking with him will kill the time

Alhamdulillah i made it :) :) saya berjaya hantar Fawwaz ke sekolah berjalan kaki dan balik dengan izin Allah....

Saya menginsafi situasi ini....bahawa di luar sana ada orang yang tiada pilihan untuk berjalan kaki atau berkenderaan melainkan ke mana-mana dengan berjalan kaki... Moga Allah mempermudahkan urusan dan kesulitan yang kita hadapi dan dapat melaluinya dengan mudah dengan perlindunganNya....

Allahu Akbar!